You refer to Bill and say you get frustrated with someone who can't think. Your frustration is a result of someone not thinking in agreement with you. By the way, is it possible you could fly to Frankfurt, Germany sometime? I'd like to meet you if possible on my next trip. I know you Fins can't possibly handle that German beer. Seriously though, consider my offer. Or perhaps I can make a detour and come to Finland if the flight schedules for my destination are not bad.
As I initially stated at the beginning, I spoke to 2 ladies, one Russian bride was 31 and the other was 22 years old and they both agreed the age gap dating scene was about 50% go for older guys and 50% go for guys close to their age. Now I received the opinions of ladies whose lives revolve around what goes on in Russia. Could their opinions be wrong? Those stats are based upon a small sample. I could take a survey of a large sample and challenge the stats from the small sample. But, who was involved in the large sample? Stats don't mean a whole lot because of the sample population and the person compiling the stats. In fairness, the 22-year old also told me she knew a friend around her same age that married a 67-year old man from Austraila. I asked if he was rich and she said yes. I don't think anyone on this board was disagree there was not a physical attraction from the lady to the man. But, perhaps there was..who knows. I don't think so.
Saying that, I'm 44 and saw a beautiful lady the other day where I work and I would guess she was about 49-52. If I was single, had grown kids and didn't want anymore kids, she was available, accepted my offer for dinner, I would go for her in a heartbeat. But, she did have a ring on her finger that would negate any of my hypothetical situations. AM don't see many women close to their age who are attractive and single. You know the old saying, "Dating is like finding a parking spot; All the good one's are taken and only the handicap one's are available." Now, I don't mean that in a bad way, honestly. An AM 35-45 years old who wanted kids would not go for this older woman (I'm speaking long term, not a one-nighter). But, a man close to her age who didn't want kids would probably be interested. But, these ladies don't exist in great numbers in America. And forget that fat ones. Why would an AM go for a fat AW when he can go for an FSUW that looks great at the same age? Motivation from the man does play a big part.
So, when an AM looks for an FSUW, he would normally search for a younger lady, unless he is a man who doesn't want kids, and has found an attractive lady closer to his age. Looks is the key motivator. If I lived in Russia and knew many people, I'm sure I could find a lady within plus or minus 5 years of my age. But, I don't live in the FSU and us men are going to go for looks which is normally better at the younger age group. I guess it shows we are human. The majority of Western women are not going to go more than 2-5 years above their age, although there are exceptions. I did the 30-19 thing and that taught me to seek mature ladies, whatever that age may be.
If I say today that I know that the majority of younger AW, 19-25 , won't date a man who is 10-40 years above their age and purport that as a fact, is my fact invalidated because it's only me? I live here, I see it, I know it just like the 2 ladies I spoke to who told me the things at the beginning of this thread.
I would be curious to read the observations of men going to the FSU from looking around at 10 random couples, and only 1 couple per whatever area is being observed. What's the age difference appear to be? I will do this on my next visit, which won't be for few months though.
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