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I would just like to share my observation of your actions. Every relationship has it's ups & downs. Your's happen to hit a snag regarding the [/i]linguistics[i:1fdd149954] involving money. Because of the rampant scammer paranoia read here (right or wrong), you decided to cut bait and move on. After being with my wife for over 5 years (4 married), I can tell you that we have had more than our fair share of disagreements involving the true meaning of what was said. RW are a blend of "Russian pride" and stubborness. My guess is that the two of you are not understanding each other. What is more curious is that you chose to move on rather than "talk it out". That indicates to me that you were not that "sold" on her to begin with. You may have out thunk yourself on this one.
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There has been one thing that has really stuck out to me in this thread that was very much opposite of my experience when I cancelled my K-1 the first part of December last year. When I finally made the decision to discontinue my relationship with this lady, I was a basket case for the next two months. I am not an emotional person at all and almost always have no problem making any major decision about anything. But it was such an emotional time because of the deep feelings that I had for her and the last thing that I wanted to do was to start looking for another relationship. It took over 2 months to get somewhat back to normal.....
I do think that this has been a good topic of discussion and my compliments to you for sharing this for everyone to benefit from.
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This certainly has been one of the more interesting Russian ladies discussions. I noticed that different architects offered a wide range of opinions after they inspected Ronnie's newly constructed foundation:
1) Your steel re-bar is spaced too closely. You didn't need to use such a thick gauge.
2) See all these cracks? It dried too quickly.
3) How do you expect to build [i:5aad8444b3] any [/i:5aad8444b3] kind of house on top of this cheap-ass concrete?
4) The walls of your foundation weren't poured right to begin with.
5) Sorry, new houses aren't meant for everybody. Keep your apartment.
thanks for a foundation based on honesty, courage and knowing what you want.
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I have no argument with anything anyone has said.
you are, of correct in pointing out that everyone has a slightly different take on any situation and perhaps that's because each is looking for something different as their individual ideal.
when I sent Svitlana and her daughters back in January, I was at first relieved because of the great stress I was under with the daughters especially. But then I agonized as you did until I got back in the saddle and focused on the new horizon.
I don't discount the joy that making a woman's life better can bring to a man. Frankly, I think that's one of the reasons we're all here. I just hope, for your sake, that what you're doing won't ruin you chances in the longer run..
Yes, I do tend to fold more quickly than most. I think my experience with Svitlana where I didn't fold when I found out her daughter was stealing money from her mom (before Warsaw BTW) for the presumed purpose of paying her drug dealer, taught me that folding early is better than folding late, the stakes are less. But you're right, it could mean I might miss out on a winning hand. This was not my first opportunity to fold with Lena and remember it was not all about money. It was a realization that this woman did not have the love for me she professed.
Mark, I repeat my comments I made to Bucky. It is inherent in every man to want to be the woman's hero in everyway possible. Being the sugar daddy or support or whatever you want to call it is really one of the only ways we can demonstrate our manhood and love from so far away. I understand and feel the same way. I just think after what I have seen and experienced, that it's better to wait until marriage...but who does? Few, and certainly not me...so far.
It's good we can all go to school on each other's putts here, eh?
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