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First off why would I write a Russian women post about this if it was'nt true??? Perhaps some people do not like to hear this reality . I've been married 2x before and now engaged. Do I find this kind of behavior with him bad? Sure I do. But it is his business. If I were to judge all my friends because some had affairs ,then at least 60% of the men I know would not be friends as we all know about 60% of married men and women cheat. With Europeans that percentage is even higher.
He does not think like me and is very jaded about women. Does not want to be married ever. He says no woman can be trusted because if some married women come so easily to him, then she will be easy for the next good-looking guy that gives her attention. but he did this to himself. I am not his therapist,but I do know it is very easy for him to get women and in a way I see the shallowness of women when I am with him which goes against anything I ever believed about women.
I'm a nice guy,but I get no attention at all with him around .Invisible! Most women will say they want a nice guy,but in reality they get bored easy because a lot want drama. And I am convinced most women want to be with a man other women want. many beautiful women are very competitive for male attention. He does not care if a woman is married or not as he is not searching for that. Her beauty is overall what he looks for
Some may wonder why he is still my friend. As I said, though I do not agree with his behavior he has opened my eyes to certain "behaviors" in women I look out for in order not to make mistakes again. Certain types to avoid! Flirty women, attention whores,competitive women,needy women,women who crave praise women who do not trust. I am much smarter and less trusting of things now which is good.
I used to believe women where this wonderful creatures who do not lie,act or cheat unless her man is treating her wrong. I thought the guy had to be doing something wrong in order for his women to misbehave. Now I know better.
I also understand why most women will not trust even her own sister or best friends alone with her man.Women though they profess to be so upstanding and unlike men actually cannot trust their own,why??? Why is it most women who confide about how great her lover is in bed or brag about the size of her man's member will eventually find out she is betrayed by one of the women she "bragged" to." ?
I know a lot of FW/AM marriages .Lots. I think the idea of marrying FW is good. But many guys make a mistake of going way beyond their league and the woman back in her country is easily impressed by this "successful: AM. But after a few years of living in the States it is difficult for many of the younger very beautiful women not to be attracted or tempted by younger,successful or better looking guys they are now attracting in abundance. In other words the deal that had looked so good back in her country ain't looking so good now that she is in the land of milk and honey.
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