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'nuff said.
Had I lived the life of a man who couldn't get the time of day from a woman, the only comfort I have are instances when people speak of fidelity issues. How easy it would be for me to remind them it's no picnic to burn in hell. There's not a more ridiculous declaration that men citing damnation for what is an otherwise basic innate of procreation.
The majority of men are conditioned hypocrites. Truckloads of men in my community are conditioned in life to mask (or label) their social innefficiencies to faux creed and ethics.
The MOB is certainly a great showcase example of this fact. More times than not, men claims to seek compatibilities for their mate, but if you took a stride of realism in their intent - what they seek is the same as any other men in our daily lives. Someone they find sexually attractive and willing to engage them in the arena. All else is secondary. Heck, they would even choose one who doesn't speak a word of their language - [i:5c35233459]fer chrissake[/i:5c35233459]. Not exactly sure how they gauge compatibility matters there.
Russia, and the like, offers that realtity for many a men in this suit. It offers them the same opportunities to 'be' with a woman that the men they damned before found so easily to do before in their town.
What do the majority of men do when they come to FSU looking for a wife? Flip through the catalog of pretty faces to find compatibilities, [i:5c35233459]yeah right[/i:5c35233459]. What happens to these men once they get laid with their date? They fall in love.
What do men do when they marry with one of these women? They showcase that alleged 'compatibility' by posting her pictures in the internet.
Men who've dated beautiful women all their lives need not engage in showing their beautiful wives as if feebly making a statement that they are no longer part of Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Heart's Club society. Look through this very site and simply ask yourself that simple question - what is the REAL purpose of doing that. Do those pictures tell us how wonderful she really is as a person - [i:5c35233459]of course they do, yah?[/i:5c35233459]
The majority of men are insecure of themselves - Period. They need constant validation of their existence, and a constant source to boost their ego. Without these, they are at an eternal biblical war with those who do. Those who do not paddle the same oars are damned in hell.
That is, until they get laid.
Reality have nothing to do with this. Certainly not morals or ethics.
RWs and AWs have two similar problems - relationship with men - albeit very distinctly different in nature.
RMs have been conditioned in life to perpetually relate to women in the context of promiscuity. Take an average RM in Russia. He's been conditioned all his life that chasing women is rewarded more often than not. The likelihood for an average RM to have GF with relative ease is a given. Even RMs living here in America have the same success with AWs as they do in their homeland - why? because they know they can - henceforth - they do.
Now you take an average AM. You can easily see the clumsiness in the way he handles himself around Russian women, even in FSU. Why? because all his life, his insecurities have dealt him a constant blow that he simply isn't good enough. That pervasive belief is arguably the main reasons why relationship and marriages never last in our society. Why? How can a person understand what it takes to have a successful relationship with a woman, when the only measure of his experience of understanding and relating to women is from discussions with equally hypocritical, clueless men.
Our society dubbed that ' male bonding' moments....
When all is said and done, it is FAR EASIER to blame it on AWs.
Sure there are successes in this affair, as there are in our society - but methinks one of the more prevalent reasons the 'majority' (simply a solid assumption) fail is the same reasons they always had in our society.
We are infested with men who are lonely, hypocritical, and haven't the slightest clue to what women are all about - let alone have a relationship with one.
These very men will even go as far as deceiving women to fill their void.
If you doubt this, read the questions (and attitudes) these men ask (have) in this board!
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