I don't feel sorry for her....I do feel sorry for him....I don't think he lied....hes providing a good home and education for her child...she can certainly return to Ukraine or where ever she is from....whats stoping her.....greed I suggest....
This is a great example of what not to do....sadly its too freakin common....because morons are going and asking to marry in a week and morons are accepting in a week....its just the normal outcome of strangers marrying each other....
Typical outcome of the OWW.....and yes I know there are successful OWW's.....they should keep quiet though....because they are an abberation....this is a more typical outcome.....
As a final fact that there is no reason to feel sorry for this woman....she had fully 90 days to live in and experience not only the rural environment but also to get to know the man who brought her there....AND SHE STILL DECIDED TO MARRY HIM....she should quit her whining and get to work on her marriage...or leave....
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I could not agree more. Two people share the responsibility for the success or failure of the relationship. However, I do put a little more blame on the man. He should know that her new life in the US would be completely different than her life in Ukraine. This applies no matter where he lives. It is his responsibility to give her as much information as he can so that she understands her new life.
It's a pity, really.
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What happened to talking and communicating with each other? She couldn't tell him she was unhappy? We can't expect our men to read our minds.
Or she didn't have enough time (during waiting for her visa to come through) to find out where she was going to live and what to expect? The guy made an offer, she accepted it. So, he assumed that she was fine with everything he had to offer.
And I couldn't agree more with this:
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Holy Crap. I agree with Rando on something. I think I need to go buy a black helm and a breath mask ala Darth Vader with all this agreeing with people Ive been doing of late. Cameraguy, now Rando. Next Ill be agreeing with Matt3.
At anyrate what the hell is the marriage problem? That shes not living in the big city? She cant figure that out after 3 months? I blame her. I doubt the guy told her "I live in Ney York in a huge apartment" Then moved her to rural Montana or something. If the only problem that exists is the location of the marriage she probably is a pretty selfish person. Sorry Blame her not him. Why would the guy be able to tell his marriage is in trouble? Where someone lives is a pretty mundade detail. If its that big an issue they should get an appartment somewhere and her child can go to a crappy city school, be an illiterate and live a crap life in a crap job. She should get the hell over herself and look for good things where shes at. Join some charity groups, get into a book club, whatever.
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